Thursday, April 12, 2012

Disappointment

Once one said,
Its not that the people who disappointed you , is you who have high expectation.
Is it?
I'm just disappointed and tired of trying.
Once there is no trust in a relationship, the relationship ends.  I agreed.
I admit that I maybe wrong in some way. but not betray.
Some people should just shut their mouth up and continue their lives.

I think I will stop trying and ignore everything.
What's the point of sincerity if all you got is sadness and complications.
Sometimes I just have to learn not to keep a promise.
because keeping a promise will hurt yourself. Most of the time.

It is stupid to actually continue to keep a promise and let people misunderstand and stab behind your back.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

选择性的让自己当个神经大條的人

时候,我们看到周遭或亲密的人情绪不佳的时候,
常常会不知觉的对号入座
我们会以为对方绷着脸,是因为我们不乖,或者是做错什么了。
最后也跟情绪不好了。
有时候,我们自己也会因为某件事不开心,
不开心的时候,要将情绪一码归一码 完全不带给身边亲密的家人,朋友,
那真的要有很高的修养。
如果,在自己需要静静的平静情绪时,旁人一直追问你为什么对他绷着脸,
压力也是挺大的,不是吗?

选择性的让自己当个神经大條的人。 
个人的情绪就让个人去平复吧!
想说的时候自然会说,该说的时候,自然得说。
让每个人都有情绪起伏的自由,
也放过自己,不要将别人的情绪往自己身上揽
保持自己的平静,才有能力抚慰别人的不平呐~~