Birthday

 XD i know it had been almost a month since my birthday
but i just dun have enough time to post tis kinda long post...
so...my 20th birthday was GREAT!! ^^
with my friends and family around...
Dear michelle, janet, tina, wen chuan and his girl, benjamin -------
a big THANK YOU to you all my frens~ they held a birthday celebration for me...
erm it was at Secret Garden...Photos time~taken by michelle and tina~

the reserved seat

some of the foods

so this was my piece of Birthday cake~

all of us

well i was shocked by this cake and the BIG cracker candles...its lovely~

and the video taken by Tina dear~~

haha anyway its really happy to be with your friends on your birthday....
oh and not to forget the another 3~~
Thank you for Terrence's breakfast,
and Thank you for Tia's and Alvin's lunch~!!
was happy because of you guys~!!
and also my dear brother...hahah he presented me a nail polish....haha wat a cute color he choose..
well tats all...goodnitezz~

我是UU女.....

来做做心理测验~~~
动作１、两手直觉十指交握
握好没，别偷看答案...

A.左手拇指在上-->“U”
B.右手拇指在上-->“SA”


动作２、双手直觉交错抱胸
抱好没，别偷看答案....


A.右手掌在上-->“U”
B.左手掌在上-->“SA”


将动作1和2的结果（共两个字）顺序组合起来，你的结果是？　 

这 是日本的〔USAUSA~UNO SANO URANA)性格诊断，利用人类左右脑各司其职的特性，设计了简单的两个惯性动作，分辨出这个人习惯以左脑（主理性，语言，计算，分析）还是右脑（主感 性，直觉，想象，创造），来做为解读讯息用的”接收脑”，还是决定怎么说，怎么行动的”传达脑”？进而了解一个人的潜在性格与行为模式.


动作１、两手直觉十指交握＜显示一个人”接收脑”的惯用情形＞
A.左手拇指在上-->意思是接收讯息时优先使用感性为主的右脑（U）
B.右手拇指在上-->意思是接收讯息时优先使用理性为主的左脑（SA）


动作２、双手直觉交错抱胸＜显示一个人”传达脑”的惯用情形＞
A.右手掌在上-->意思是传达讯息时优先使用感性为主的右脑（U）
B.左手掌在上-->意思是传达讯息时优先使用理性为主的左脑（SA）



结果分析：

１、SASA女
性格：无坚不摧的铁娘子：为人一本正经，给人精明干练的距离感，若跟莎莎女成为好友，则是值得依赖的好帮手，但成为敌人，就会非常难缠！
恋爱：想太多的自我设限：交往前会想太多，对恋爱小心翼翼，不过很容易因此放弃，对主动告白的异性会难以招架，不过要小心反被聪明误！

２、USA女
性格：人情的好听众：散发出安心，温柔，善解人意的气质，是一个人人都想跟妳说心事的好听众，如困别人苦苦哀求妳，总是很难拒絶别人！
恋爱：难以爽快脱身：虽然会理性评估对方，不过一但陷入热恋，就完全被感性主导，当热情不在时，很容易因对方对自己的依赖而无法爽快分手！

３、UU女
性格：直觉行事的侠女：热血又充满个人魅力，会突然失控大笑或大哭，但都是出自真心，因此颇受朋友喜欢，最明显的就是购买东西完全凭感觉，就算不实用或已有相同款式还是想买！
恋爱：单纯的爱情至上者：以自己心理的感觉为主，不会参考对方或客观因素来决定自己下一步举动，若对对方很有好感，一整天就像春暖花开，如果对方疑似劈腿，也会惊天动地大哭一场，但也很容易变心！

４、SAU女
性格：阳刚味的大姊大：因为冷静观察与分析的性格，在同性之间很容易展现气慨与责任感，常常是女生之间的大姊大，但掌握全场之余又不失冷静观察！
恋爱：有目标的下手：操控自己的感觉，能冷静分析对方是否适合自己，一旦锁定目标，就会用尽方法维持热度，虽然严谨以对，但内心总有一把不可告人的浪漫烈火！

５、SASA男
性格：超级理性的数字人：完全以左脑为主的男性，以步骤跟数字为行事的准则，总是条理分明，不太能察觉感情，所以会给人固执，偏执的感觉！
恋爱：慢热专情的完美主义：会在心中描绘完美形象，面对真实感情却显得慢热自闭，一旦点燃热情后，就会持续专情，就算对方响应冷淡，莎莎男仍念兹在兹，从一而终！

６、USA男
性格：情义相挺的汉子：虽然看似冷酷，其实很重感情，会以直觉印象为出发点，然后再以坚决的步伐行事，就是那种看你顺眼，就会收你做徒弟，挺你的那种大哥！
恋爱：不打没有把握的仗：恋爱成功机率很高，一旦确认对方也对自己有好感后，就会火力全开，不过爱得深，对女方的要求跟猜疑也很深！

７、UU男
性格：永远乐观的国王：因为相信自己的直觉，所以会显得自信满满，率直天真，坏处就是对不感兴趣的事，也丝毫不想掩饰，会显得兴趣缺缺甚至默不关心！
恋爱：自我得意的攻势：很容易自我沉溺在热恋气氛中，不过太过率直乐观的个性，可能会误解别人对你是否有好感，陷入自我得意的陷井中！

８、SAU男
性格：智囊分析者：喜欢探求理与擅长分析，常是旁人意见的给予者，给人一种冷静稳当的感觉，不喜欢与人争吵，很能妥善地处理事情，不过难免给人距离感！
恋爱：可能性至上：把自己喜不喜欢对方放在其次，反而以跟对方能否发展下去为第一前提，是个很适合爱情长跑或结婚的对象！

Girls.

Girls are like
apples on trees. The best
ones are at the top of the tree.
The boys don't want to reach for
the good ones because they are afraid
of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they
just get the rotten apples from the ground
that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples
at the top think something is wrong with
them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right
boy to come along, the one
who's brave enough  
to climb
all the way
to the top
of the tree.

XD

=]

I get it. I really got it.
my heart sank.
well, perhaps this is the Christmas eve present for me from you.
I just want to run away. 

可不可以.....

可不可以有个人，

在我眼泪就快掉下来急着躲不被认何人看见我哭时之前，

把手遮着我的眼睛。

可不可以有个人，
看见我静静的笑或没表情的时候，
不会不理我，
不会真的认为我很坚强，
肩膀承受的了，
觉得我真的无所谓。

可不可以有个人，
在我真的遇到难题找他时，
不会找不到他，
或是就算回我信息了，
我却没有回他信息时不会不担心我，
要知道有问题时我都会自己解决，不会随便求人，
在我会找他时就是我很无助很没办法了。

可不可以有个人，
就算是我做错事了，
也不会不理我，
不会转头就走丢下我……

Alone in Crowd.

Came to the airport 7 hours earlier before my flight.
First experience to stay overnight in the airport.
Thought McD will have the seat I want, but end up no.
Went Starbucks then. Sarcastically, just after half an hour I sat there,enjoying my green tea flow, the waiter came and said: " Starbucks is closing at 1.30am.."
Wow....now what?? no choice. back to McD.
Sitting together with bunch of people I don't know, speaking Foochow happily like they are the only Foochows in M'sia. * laugh stock of the day.

Now here I am, wondering why people rushing their time. For what very reason  they live their lives.
Saw lots of the passengers wearing or carrying Burberry, LV, Salvator.F, Gucci.......
We are born to earth, developing, studying, working, marrying, reproducing, ageing, Die.

Why do we want to go for those branded goods??

Was thinking, am I being too materialistic??
thought about the money I spent in the past few days.
Some people work very hard just to get this amount of money to pay their fees or loan.
but I just spent it on something I want.
and I tend to go for branded goods. *not those Salvator or Gucci yet of course.
Does it really worth it??
People bought a dress with 15 but I need to bought it with 150. Some will even bought it with 1500.
I can't imagine myself wearing a RM15 dress walking along the street.
I don't know, I just can't help it. I will feel like some parts of me is very wrong.

they said money is never enough.
Earning money is not tough. but saving money is tough.
Its true. We use 200 bucks perfume when our salary is 2000 bucks.
but we will be using 2000 bucks perfume when our salary is 20000 bucks.
Its the same isn't it? We will go for those higher.
Sigh....Life is never simple.
No idea now.
Boarding time soon. till then.

No Idea.

不懂为什么，看到你，我心里闷闷的。
真的不懂。不明白。

HOLIDAYS

somehow it means time for relax, enjoy and SHOPPING~~!!! huhuhuhuhuhhuhu XD
hmm so me and my fren went JOGOYA  to like celebrate our "Finish Exam"...
hmm it was a HAPPY GATHERING!!!!
and I seriously need to budget myself in shopping.
I was spending like HELL today. OMG!!!!!! >.< satisfied though.

Photo speaks.

this is starhill gallery. like the deco of the roof.

something tat we took.

foods.

me and my dear wei wei~

and this is our Mr. Lobster. only VIP member can have that. hahaha .credits to the card holder.

pardon me. haha.

nice one.

Da He Zao

and this is my dear IDA POOO~~~*eyes closed?

yay!!my "Flight of Fancy". smells good.

bought two. this is "Secret Wish".

 HAPPY HOLIDAY~~!!!!

ohya...and my new look.

curled my hair. just a lil bit. >.< look older...or mature?? hahahha..

 GoodNitezzz

Happy Birthday Jesus.

It brings tears to my eyes. It really do.
As I told you.
Christmas isn't about Santa Claus. It isn't about jingle bells.
It isn't about those snowman, isn't about those blinking lights.
It isn't about those little red dress and isn't about the christmas tree.

Its all about Jesus Christ. Our Savior.
Christmas is the day of remembrance that Jesus Christ came down to earth.
Its Jesus Birthday. Not Santa giving present. Not Jingle bell rings and rocks.

The only present on Christmas is Jesus.
He is the best gift in Christmas. and the best gift in our life.

So if you don't about Jesus, let me tell you.
He is the son of our God Almighty.
He suppose to be high up in the heaven with our Heavenly Father.
But He came down to earth just to save us. Just to save me and you, these awful sinners.
Yes I am a sinner. and a sinner CANNOT go into Heaven. NO. You cannot.
But God loves us. He sent his only son down to earth and DIE on the cross to cleanse all our sins.
By that, we can enter heaven and be with our God, our King, our Heavenly Father.
The blood of Jesus Christ save us.
We suppose to be in Hell,with Satan.
But Jesus trades us with his life. He died on the cross. His blood cleanse our sins.
All you need to do is just say "Yes " to Jesus and ask him to enter your life and cleanse all your sins.
He WILL FORGIVE you. He is a loving God.
So now, Heaven or Hell?? Its your choice.
I have made my choice. I want Jesus in my life.

Lastly i want to say,
Thank you Jesus. Jesus I Love You.

I can make it through the rain

Tear just drops when I listened to it.
Yes I can make it.
I can make it through the rain.
I can stand up once again on my own .
and I know that I’m strong enough to mend.
And every time I feel afraid I hold tighter to my faith.
And I live one more day.
And I'll make it through the rain.

Thank you for this song.

CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jingle bell jingle bell jingle bell rocks!!!!!!
LOL i know this has nothing to do with the true meaning of christmas.
hahahhah but i just luv this song~~><
lol 1 paper down, 3 to go~~~ *wish me luck and bless in my final exam!!!!
but still im here listening and singing the christmas song out loud in my room~~
hahahahhahahaha im just sooo happy!!!!! finally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HOLIDAY!!! and CHRISTMAS!!!!!!
hmm will have a real christmas post later!!hahahahahhahahahhahahahahhaha
im just sooooooooooooooooo HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank You Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!!!!!! for came down to earth! luv ya.

=[

why i always do something like this.
i seems like to do things at last minute. which is BAD.
I seriously freak out.
what if i blank off during my exam and what if i can't pass.
I really scared. =(
Pray for me.

We will Dance

This song is just so dear. I fell in love with this song from the very beginning.
so, just want to share it with you all.
by Steven Curtis Chapman. dearly rhythm and melody.





well i suppose to be buried by my notes during this time.
but this song just makes me alive.
hope you all will like it.toddles.

怎樣才能嫁給有錢人？

很好的帖子哦。女士们  请看过来！！！

但我要说，靠自己虽是非常好，但靠神却是最好的！！

一個年輕漂亮的美國女孩，在美國一家大型網上論壇金融版上，發表了這樣一個問題帖︰

我怎樣才能嫁給有錢人？

我下面要說的都是心裡話。本人25歲，非常漂亮，是那種讓人驚艷的漂亮，談吐文雅，有品位，想嫁給年薪 50 萬美元的人。

你也許會說我貪心，但在紐約年薪100萬才算是中產，本人的要求其實不高。這個版上有沒有年薪超過50萬的人？你們都結婚了嗎？我想請教各位一個問題 -- 怎樣才能嫁給你們這樣的有錢人？

我約會過的人中，最有錢的年薪25萬，這似乎只是我的下標。要住進紐約中心公園以西的高尚住宅區，年薪25萬遠遠不夠。我是來誠心誠意請教的。有幾個具體的問題︰

一、有錢的單身漢一般都在哪裡消磨時光？（請列出酒吧、飯店、健身的名字和詳細地址。）

二、我應該把目標定在哪個年齡段？

三、為什麼有些富豪的妻子看起來相貌平平？我見過有些女孩，長相如同白開水，毫無吸引人的地方，但她們卻能嫁入豪門。而單身酒吧裡那些迷死人的美女卻運氣不佳。

四、你們怎麼決定誰能做妻子，誰只能做女朋友？（我現在的目標是結婚。）

波爾斯女士 --

下面是一個華爾街金融家的回帖︰

親愛的波爾斯︰我懷著極大的興趣看完了貴帖，相信不少女士也有跟你類似的疑問。讓我以一個投資專家的身份，對你的處境做一分析。

我年薪超過50萬，符合你的擇偶標準，所以請相信我並不是在浪費大家的時間。

從生意人的角度來看，跟你結婚是個糟糕的經營決策，道理再明白不過，請聽我解釋。拋開細枝末節，你所說的其實是一筆簡單的“財”“貌”交易︰甲方提供述人的外表，乙方出錢，公平交易，童叟無欺。但是，這裡有個致命的問題，你的美貌會消逝，但我的錢卻不會無緣無故減少。

事實上，我的收入很可能會逐年遞增．而你不可能一年比一年漂亮。因此，從經濟學的角度 講，我是增值資產，你是貶值資產，不但貶值，而且是加速貶值！你現在25歲，在未來的五年裡，你仍可以保持窈窕的身段，俏麗的容貌，雖然每年略有退步。但 美貌消逝的速度會越來越快，如果它是你僅有的資產，十年以後你的價值甚憂。

用華爾街術語說，每筆交易都有一個倉位，跟你交往屬於「交易倉位（TradingPosition）」，一旦價值下跌就要立即拋售，而不宜長期持有--也就是你想要的婚姻。聽起來很殘忍，但對一件會加速貶值的物資，明智的選擇是租賃，而不是購入。

年薪能超過50萬的人，當然都不是傻瓜，因此我們只會跟你交往，但不會跟你結婚。所以我勸你不要苦苦尋找嫁給有錢人的秘方。順便說一句，你倒可以想辦法把自己變成年薪 50 萬的人，這比碰到一個有錢的傻瓜的勝算要大。

希望我的回帖能對你有幫助。如果你對“租賃”感興趣，請跟我聯繫。

It's a nice one isn't it??? Do keep it in mind.

原谅我没有说

不经意 在逛街时 又听到这首歌。
这首我曾经很喜欢很喜欢的歌。
很久没听了。一听，很多的回忆又浮现。
=)想跟你说，
=)原谅我的自私 原谅我的懦弱 原谅我的不相信 原谅我的没自信 原谅我的不主动 原谅我的忽略
=)原谅我的没有说。
李圣杰的歌不错。歌词我喜欢。

At last

you proved that my assumptions and my thoughts were real.
you are not as simple as everyone thought you were.
I used to like a great quote. suits you very much.
"对付虚伪的人，不是骂她，不是拆穿她，而是让她继续悲哀地虚伪着，然后装作什么也不知道。那么慢慢地，很多人会主动跑来告诉你她有多虚伪。
对付自私的人，不是恨她，不是不理她，而是渐渐远离她，从心底远离她，然后装作什么都不知道。如果她去找别人，那么你会发现，很多人都远离了她。"
Tats RIGHT!! I did that and the result shows positive.
I told you I like to enjoy people "drama-ing" themselves.
and being a bystander is just fascinating.
people came and told me you were "like tat like tat" were also fun.
Once one said,
You can cheat someone every time, You can cheat everyone sometime,
BUT You cannot cheat everyone every time.
Just be yourself girl. and dun be too calculative. It sucks.

我只能说

你的见识，经历不多。。。那不是个大问题。
问题是，你觉得你已经经历了很多，见识很广了。
=)

属马的

我哦！！我属马的!
跟我性格有97%Bingo 讷。原来我很多优点的。哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。
Fb copy and paste的。>.<
请自己把 “属马” 改成 “我”

属马的人性格很奇怪,有时候超爱说话,有时候可以一天不说话,高兴的时候,会拼命的说话,不高兴的时候,一句话也不说. * my fren said tats really me.
属马的人不爱记仇,但谁对他好谁对他不好,他还是记得很清楚的* i seriously know.
属马的把真实的自己藏于半夜的寂静和午夜明朗的笑声中.
属马的最注重的就是安全感.希望被保护,却常常是一个人.
属马的不容易爱上一个人，但一旦爱上便很难自拔。一旦受伤，总是被伤的很深。只有几个贴心朋友


属马的是个很爱撒娇的孩子、总是很依赖别人
属马的喜欢海,喜欢顾影自怜.喜欢自己舔伤口.
属马的性格很古怪而又孤僻,他们会突然在大笑中沉默,感觉悲伤.
属马的心里想什么从来不说.别人也猜不到.
属马的嘴上说不在乎、心里却早已悲凉、心里的那把火早已熄灭 .


属马的选择了沉默、不在像以前那样挚热的去追求某样东西 .* =)
属马的总是很爱回忆、回忆以前的点点滴滴、以前的大小事只是默默的想着.
属马的座的人天生敏锐，与生具备的第六感，对人的内心有超乎寻常的洞察力，但他会把这些东西放在心里，属马的人可以把你的眼神、内心看得很清楚，但却不会告诉你，他用旁观的态度判定虚伪 . *I seriously enjoy watching them direct their "movie". kinda entertaining.
属马的人不懂甜言蜜语，不屑拍马屁 .
属马的人本能的排斥虚伪和做作的人 .* those who know me probably knew it long ago.


属马的人不会真的发火，就算生气，也很快忘记！
属马的人只对真正懂他的人，展示他的创造性，他的情绪变得冷淡就证明他开始对你重新审视， 当他越是沉默，就代表他越是生气 . * yes this is so true. I will "cool" when i re-evaluate you.
属马的人可能看起来很凶，其实内心是最柔软的 . * I dun think I look fierce.
属马的人看起来很冷淡，但那只是保护自己的方法 .
属马的人很重视友情，但被伤害后绝对不再友善 . *Tats true. Never will friend you if you ever hurt me. I forgive, but not forget.


属马的人很容易被感动，但感动中又保有理智 .huhuhuhhuuhu proud to be myself.
属马的人可能看起来很坚强，其实是最脆弱的 .
属马的人可能很爱哭，但他的哭并不代表认输 .****我没有很爱哭！！！错了。
属马的人可能看起来很笨，其实大智若愚 . *I especially like this.hahahaha but I dun look stupid didnt I?

属马的人可能做事很毛躁，但内心很细心 .
属马的人天生敏感和细腻，却会用心鉴定 .

属马的懦弱，受了伤之后，只知道躲在无人的地方独自哭泣 .

属马的虚伪，明明已经心痛到无法呼吸，还要在最爱的他面前假装坚强；不轻易让任何人走进他自己独自的世界

属马的笑容，无论开心或者悲伤，他都是一脸笑容，笑容，是他们伪装自己最好的武器. *smile.

属马的眼泪，从不轻易让人看见，他的泪，从来只有知道。

属马的退缩， 属马的，永远不会轻易说爱或者喜欢，除非真的喜欢到了极点，否则，要他们表白几乎不可能，但是，一旦表白，他们就是不遗余力的付出，即使知道这样做换来的结果可能是深深的伤害…



属马的，永远只可能做同一件事两次，表白也一样，同一个人，只可能听到他向你最深的表白两次，两次之后，就是绝对的安静了…即使仍然深爱着，他也没有勇气再说第三遍我爱你…他的退缩，不能重复一件事第三次 .*now I know why I always give ppl only 3 chances.

属马的愚蠢，不懂的怎么挽回深爱的人的心，只能自己心中默默的祝福和祈祷。

受了伤的马，只会在角落独自忍受锥心的痛.

属马的：体贴第一名，爱吃第一名，爱家第一名，孝顺第一名，多愁善感第一名。
* this one super suit me..haha Luv to EAT~!!! >< 

80和90后的特点

突然看到这个文章。
现在的人真的就是酱。

1.熟人面前说个不停，生人面前一言不发。

2.为了不熬夜，不如就通宵。

3.不问问题，只查Google和baidu。

4.对一切事物充满好奇，但除了课本和作业。...

5.欢制定周密的个人计划，然后不执行。

6.经常早饭中饭并在一起吃。

7.永远不知道自己的钱花到哪儿去了。

8.网友成为朋友，朋友成为网友。

嘻嘻。。我不幸的也成为其中一个。。不过最后两个我没有噢。。 呵呵。。
要忏悔悔改了。。。huhuhu

有时候

想活在古代。很好笑   我知道。
可是真的有时候活在古代该有多好。

以前，没有那么复杂的事情。
现今，所有的东西都是复杂的。

复杂的男女关系。*应该没有人会反对咯。。
复杂的朋友关系。
复杂的人际关系。
复杂的奇怪思想。*看看现在流行的打扮。Vampires??? Seriously!! What on earth are those stupid ugly makeup..with those bloody lipstick used from lips to your neck. What the heck.

。。。eda说，如果活在古代他现在就可以结婚生子了。多好。。 =.=
古代有时真不错。。。*喜欢他们的衣服。。。>< 这不是重点。。

以前人，结婚就是一辈子，一物订终生。。
现在，换了一个又一个。。一个女人有不同男人还有不同孩子。男人也一样，有不同女人和不同孩子。
结婚，没有多大意义了。
单身，是蛮明确的选择。既不伤害人，也不伤害自己。
但是!!要做就一定要做个单身贵族！！>< 不可以做个贫苦的单身。

haizz.......
是我太简单，还是世界太复杂。。。
还是，其实世界很简单，人心很复杂。。。

So sorry.

Im really sorry if you were hurt by what I said. I really am. I don't meant it.
And I definitely don't know the truth and thats the reason I said that. 
You don't seems angry or sad but i don't know...
just somehow I feel that you are somewhat sad and speechless...
I am really sorry...